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SIGN OF GOOD BEHAVIOR

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              Deepak shukla

 

 

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Introduction

Human is the most intelligent and powerful creation of God on the earth as he lives in the society as well as he has capacity to think, talk and react accordingly. So, he must know how to behave well and practice good manners. Parents must teach their kids how should they behave with family members, relatives, neighbours, teachers, etc. and respect the views of others. And we know that good behaviour plays a major role in our life.

What is good behavior ?

A good behaviour is a key to success in life. good behaviours are very necessary to have for a person in order to live happy, interesting, disciplined and peaceful life.

It means having polite or well-bred social behaviour by the people. Having good manners in life matters a lot for living a social life. It should be included in all the activities especially in children from childhood. Behaving in well or bad manner is the most important part of the human nature and life. Good manners help us in getting respect and dignity in the society whereas bad manners degame us. Good behaviour develops from emotions also.

A well behaving man, having all the good manners, is become the important citizen in the society as he always tries to never hurts the feelings of others. Good behaviours are more than opening doors and writing thank you notes. Being polite and courteous to others show our real behaviour, thinking and mind level. Being a well-mannered & well-behaved person, we set a standard for others too which encourages them to practice good manners.

How can I practice for  good behavior ?

1. Practice healthy habits.

Not being active, not getting enough sleep or eating poorly can lead to cranky, hangry kids (and adults). On the flip side, getting the activity, sleep and nutrients we need helps keep us all feel more emotionally balanced.

Here are some simple ways to practice healthy habits with your family:

• Sleep: Power down electronics at least an hour before bedtime and keep screens out of the bedrooms. Dust off your old-school alarm clocks if you have to.
• Nutrition: Take the pressure off at meal and snack times by trying to enjoy the time together instead of battling over how much your kids are (or aren’t) eating. It’s your job as the parent to provide healthy options, and it’s your kids’ job to decide if, what and how much to eat. Let the phrase “you don’t have to eat it” be your friend.
• Physical activity: Make being active part of your routine. Get into the habit of taking family walks after dinner or following along with a yoga video online in the mornings. Physical activity not only boosts our moods, but it also helps us sleep better at night.

 

2. make and follow basic routines.

Providing some structure to the day helps us all feel more relaxed because we know what to expect. This may seem impossible in times of chaos and crisis, but the routines can be as simple as trying to have consistent times for meals, waking up and going to bed. When your routines get interrupted, try to be flexible and be kind to yourself. As best you can, go with the flow, and get back on track when you can. Tomorrow is a new day.

 

 

3. Practice coping skills.

No one is born knowing how to cope. We all need to learn and practice healthy coping strategies so that we have a variety of tools to rely on whenever we are feeling stressed or overwhelmed. Keep in mind that it’s difficult to learn something new when you’re upset, tired or distracted, so it’s important to teach and practice coping skills when everyone is calm instead of in the heat of the moment. Learning healthy coping strategies will not only be helpful in dealing with current stress, but will also help your family become more resilient, so they are better prepared to handle future ups and downs.

 

 

4. get fun together.

Building fun, engaging activities into the day helps keep everyone more stimulated and connected. There are so many things we can be worrying about, but years from now, we won’t remember the color-coded schedules we made or the Instagram-worthy bread we baked. We will, however, remember the memories we created with our family. So if you can, try to slow down and find joy in these new moments with your family. Who knows? Maybe something you start doing together during quarantine will become a long-standing tradition for years to come.

 

 

5. concentrate on the behavior, not the child.

It’s natural at times to catch yourself thinking “My child is ungrateful” or “My child is bad,” but kids are human. Be realistic with your expectations and accept that kids will make mistakes—especially during times of uncertainty and stress. Try to focus on helping your child fix the behavior by telling them what they can do, instead of blaming them or thinking something is wrong with them.

 

 

6. Being  clear expectations and follow through.

Everyone in the house can benefit from clear and consistent limits and boundaries. Help avoid confusion and future limit-testing behavior by being clear on the front end about household rules and expectations. For example, if you only want your kids to spend 30 minutes on a device, be upfront about how much time they have and then stick to your limits. If you say 30 minutes but let them go for however long they like, they’re not going to take you seriously the next time—and they’ll likely be even more resistant when you do enforce limits.

 

 

7. Make time to talk about emotions and feeling .

When we are struggling to express ourselves with words, we tend to show others how we feel with our behavior.

Help everyone in your family name and express their feelings by:

• Asking open-ended questions.
• Listening and repeating back what you hear, without judgement.
• Letting the other person know their feelings are normal and valid.
• Trying not to dismiss or downplay anyone’s feelings.
• Making it a natural part of the day to talk about feelings.

 

8. find your battles.

If you can go into each day knowing that it’s not going to be perfect, and that you may need to be flexible, things may naturally go smoother. If you can go to sleep knowing that you are maintaining a strong, healthy relationship with your family—while prioritizing the rules that keep you all safe—everyone wins.

 

9. Model the positive behaviors you want to see in your kids.

Don’t underestimate the power of your influence. You are your kids' most important teacher, and they learn by watching you. If your kids see you calmly expressing your feelings, taking care of yourself and choosing your battles, they will learn to do the same.

 

 

10. Praise good behavior.

Show your kids that good behavior is the best way to get your attention. When your child does something good, give specific praise right away. Kids are more likely to repeat a good behavior when they receive positive attention for it. The same is true with partners and other adult family members as well! We are all more likely to repeat a behavior when someone praises us for it, so don’t hesitate to speak up and share your appreciation and gratitude for what someone else is doing.

Advantages of good behavior

We are discuss some of the advantages of good behaviour

 

 

 

1. MAKES THE BEST FIRST IMPRESSION

First impressions are important. They set the stage for future relationships and opportunities.

When you meet someone new, they don’t know anything about you. Naturally, assumptions are made based on how you carry yourself and behave—both in speech and manner.

It can be an intimidating meeting someone for the first time, but having good manners eases that burden, and who knows where an excellent first impression will take you?

 

2. INSTILLS CONFIDENCE

We gain confidence by identifying the right thing to do in any given situation—and then doing it. 

When you understand basic social manners, you know how to act appropriately, which helps alleviate doubt and self-consciousness.

It also protects against embarrassment over a misspoken word or inappropriate action. 

 

 

3. CULTIVATES A HEART FOR OTHERS

Think about manners in action. They look like:

·         Holding the door for others

·         Offering help

·         Chewing with your mouth closed

·         Making eye contact during conversation 

At the very root of good manners is a heart that is fixed on others before self. 

From this point of view, it’s clear that the benefits of thoughtful behavior extend far beyond oneself—they impact an entire society. 

 

 4. OPENS DOORS TO OPPORTUNITIES

Perhaps it’s a controversial opinion, but I believe good manners can open doors that even the best education cannot. 

One of the many benefits of having good manners is the unforeseen, potentially life-changing opportunities made possible by them. 

The possibilities aren’t limited to career choices, either. 

When you are mindful of others, people not only notice, but that impression of you sticks with them because of how it makes them feel. 

So when an opportunity comes along, it is often the polite, well-mannered individual who is thought of and called upon. 

 

 

5. SPARKS JOY

There is great joy in helping others. While happiness is based on happen-stance, joy can be had no matter the circumstances. 

Deep satisfaction comes from knowing your actions and mannerisms are having a positive impact on those around you.

Good conduct is something you can feel good about, even it seems no one notices (but rest assured they do).

 

 

 6. SAFEGUARDS AGAINST SELFISHNESS

Selfishness ruins relationships and damages reputations.

Not only that, it breeds loneliness. After all, no one wants to be around people who only care about themselves.

But proper manners provides natural protection against such condition. Apart from “faking it,” you can’t live a well-mannered life without caring about how your actions affect others. 

It’s practically impossible to be mindful of others and selfish at the same time. 

 

 

7. INSPIRES RECIPROCATION

We don’t practice good manners because we expect reciprocation, but it’s often a benefit nonetheless. 

·         It’s easy to be nice to others when they’re nice to us. 

·         We’re more willing to share with others when they share with us. 

·         When we serve others, they are more likely to serve us at some point. 

So while reciprocation is not our motivation, it is a particularly enjoyable advantage.

 

 

 8. FOSTERS BETTER RELATIONSHIPS

What kind of people do you want to be friends with? To work with?

Most likely, they wouldn’t be people who are rude, self-serving, loud-mouthed, and overall unpleasant. 

It’s natural to be drawn toward people who are polite, friendly, and mindful of others. 

Good relationships are a key to living in harmony, and social etiquette lays the groundwork to positive interactions that can eventually develop into those relationships. 

 

 

9. MAKES OTHERS FEEL NOTICED AND APPRECIATED

Do you know how many people go through their day feeling invisible and uncared for? It’s heartbreaking to think about, but it’s true. 

 

 10. LAYS THE FOUNDATION FOR SUCCESS IN LIFE

It takes more than hard work to be successful in life. When you pair that hard work with good manners, you create a dynamic duo that can plow through any obstacle. 

Proper etiquette (beyond the dining table) is admirable, and what people admire, they also respect. 

It produces a chain reaction. Respect leads to trust, and trust is at the foundation of every solid relationship—both business and personal. 

                 

                Conclusion

behave with  others the way you would like to be treated is the easiest rule to follow and encourages others to treat you in kind. Even the most polite people in the world can occasionally say the wrong thing or make mistakes, but being kind, considerate, and generous on a daily basis shows true manners. We can't police ourselves all the time, but before you say or do something, ask yourself how you would feel if others said or did that to you. The more you practice this rule, the more natural and easier it becomes.

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                                           Deepak Shukla

                                           24/NOV/2022